Oops! Did We Forget Some Manners

 Across East and West Africa, youth are often the driving force of social and political change. Their energy and determination fuel protests and movements calling for justice, equality, and better governance. Yet, too often, these protests turn violent—destroying property, dividing communities, and costing lives. The root of this problem is not just anger or frustration but also a lack of guidance and self-discipline. Young people must learn that manners, respect, and emotional control are powerful tools in making their voices heard without resorting to violence.

At the same time, the behavior of politicians plays a major role in fueling unrest. Many leaders and political actors take advantage of unemployed or frustrated youth, using them as instruments for personal or party agendas. They supply money, alcohol, or false promises to mobilize crowds, then disappear when chaos erupts. This manipulation not only endangers the youth but also damages the credibility of legitimate movements seeking change. Politicians must stop exploiting young people for selfish gain and instead invest in empowering them through education, employment, and civic training.

Manners and moral values can help the youth resist such manipulation. When young people are well-mannered, informed, and principled, they become harder to deceive. They understand that true leadership is about service, not destruction, and that lasting progress cannot come from violence. By choosing peaceful, organized protest and rejecting political puppetry, they show the world that Africa’s youth are capable of maturity and wisdom beyond their years.

The future of East and West Africa and all over the world depends on this transformation. Governments, communities, and religious leaders must unite to guide the youth toward peace, discipline, and respect for human life. Likewise, politicians must take responsibility and stop turning young people into tools of violence. Only through good manners, moral strength, and responsible leadership can Africa’s youth build the peaceful and prosperous societies they deserve.